The first misconception is:
Aprophet says that"the woman is an evil omen
They claimed that our prophet peace be upon him has consedered woman as an evil omen
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Their slander based on what came in Al-Sahihan(Bukari and Muslim
1-In Sahih AL-Bukari Marriage Book
(shapter:what evil omen of a lady is to be warded off)
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:
Allah's Messenger peace be upon him, "Evil omen is in the women, the house and the horse.'
2-In Sahih Muslim
the book of greeting)
Sahl b. Sa'd reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying:
If bad luck were to be in anything, it is found in the woman, the horse and the abode.
Misconception refutation
First:
All muslims believe that there is nothing in this universe can move or remain static from atom to galaxy without the permission of Allah and His decree.
Allah says: Say never'll we be struck except by what Allah has decreed for us,He is our protector and upon Allah let the believers rely.(Al-tawbah-51)
Also our prophet peace be upon him has forbidden this evil omen,because it is disagreed with the right Iman(faith)in two aspects:
1-The pessimistic believes in things whish have not the ability to be useful or harmful for him or anybody ealse
2-Evil omen is corrupting the right relying upon Allah ,and the great trust in Him.
And we'll find the proofs to what we mentioned in the following:
1-In Sahih Albukari
Narrated Abu Huraira:
I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "There is no Tiyara, and the best omen is the Fal." They asked, "What is the Fal?" He said, "A good word that one of you hears (and takes as a good omen).
2-In sahih Albukari
Narrated Anas: The Prophet (saws) as saying: There is no infection and no evil omen, and I like a good omen. Good omen means a good word.
3-Sunan Abi Dawud
Narrated Urwah ibn Amir al-Qurashi:
When taking omens was mentioned in the presence of the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him), he said: The best type is the good omen, and it does not turn back a Muslim. If one of you sees anything he dislikes, he should say: O Allah, no one brings good things except Thee, and no one averts evil things except Thee and there is no might and power but in Allah.
So,the prophet peace be upon him declared that the one who intented to do something, but he did not do it because of his fear from bad omen,he'll fall in Sharik Asgar(minor polytheism) which need a repentance.
4-Narrated Abdullah ibn Mas'ud:
The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said: Taking omens is polytheism; taking omens is polytheism. He said it three times. Every one of us has some, but Allah removes it by trust (in Him).
And there is a large number of Hadith in this
point.
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