And we respond to them with respect

Just to add..I don't think this is quite correct. In all the forums I have joined and all the discussions I have had this is by far the most disrespectful regarding the beliefs of others. which is not in any way representative of muslims i have met who have always been polite and kind. I find you can be quite rude at times. Sorry no offence meant, just saying as I find. No doubt you have issues with my attitude also which is no problem. The anonymity of the Internet can be both a blessing and a curse. It's not easy to judge a person when words can be misunderstood.

Anyway peace to you I hold no animosity towards you personally.